Nice guys finish last.

I'm not going to lie. There is something incredibly, incredibly intriguing about those bad boys. You know, the ones you know you shouldn't have anything to do with but every ignored text message makes them more and more irresitable. It's the thrill of the chase, and I love a good game of tag. Let me go ahead and tell you, this game is not worth winning.

I have quite a history of dating bad boys. I've had my fair share of cheaters, jail-birds, and more. It all starts with some smooth line about how amazing I am and the next thing I know I am in this downward spiral of broken pieces of my heart. These guys tell you that they want you, and you spend the days to follow trying to do everything in your will power to prove to them that they should give up their bad boy ways and settle down with you. You want to be that girl that makes them change.

What I have come to find out is that girls can't make guys change, and vice versa. Most of you all know I was engaged before. I spent months trying to be someone I wasn't because I "loved" him. All I did was make myself miserable. I gave up my friends and my family to be with a guy who spent his weekends in other girls' beds. And let me just go ahead and say, any guy that does not like your best friend should be kicked to the curb. Pronto.

The point of this blog is that sometimes you have to let the nice guy in. Sometimes you have to let him open the door for you, pull out your chair, and pay for your dinners. It's weird. After only dating losers, it is really weird. But it is exactly how it should be. Just like in the movies.